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<H1>紅杏出墻是真愛嗎?</H1></DIV>
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<DIV class=mainNewsInfo><SPAN id=mainFontSize><A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=減小字體 onclick="newasp_fontsize(0,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/1.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>減小字體</FONT></A> <A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=增大字體 onclick="newasp_fontsize(1,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/2.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>增大字體</FONT></A> </SPAN>作者:佚名 來源:<A href="http://www.souod.com"><FONT color=#810081>搜得健康網(wǎng)搜集整理</FONT></A> 發(fā)布時間:2009-07-14 01:27:46</DIV>
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: y4 |% I$ Z5 c. d( ?6 ^<DIV id=mainNewsContent class="mainNewsContent NewsContent"><TR><TD style="PADDING-TOP: 10px" class=td_24 width="660">女人出軌原因很多,但無論如何,在動心之前要好好想一想:自己擁有的家庭真的不再是你的最愛了嗎?你與“他”的外遇是真愛還是寂寞的彌補(bǔ)?不要把錯覺當(dāng)成真愛,否則,你會掉入一個更黑的深淵。
7 v' n1 \: m( R# S4 ^: Z+ S% J<P> 當(dāng)今社會,不少婚姻變得十分脆弱,似乎有點(diǎn)不堪一擊。兩個曾海誓山盟的心愛之人,竟在不經(jīng)意中“紅杏出墻”。男人有外遇還理直氣壯,女人也要找出正當(dāng)?shù)睦碛?,為求心安理得。女人?qiáng)迫自己相信,自己是為“愛”才跟“他”外遇的。</P>- b8 |7 C( O: P3 u, p
<P> 因?yàn)閷ΜF(xiàn)代大多數(shù)女性來說,只要因愛出軌就沒有關(guān)系,為“性”或?yàn)槠渌虺鲕壥遣豢稍彽摹E藢橐龅钠谕且愿星榈臐M足為準(zhǔn)則的,她們渴望被關(guān)心及愛護(hù)。而在我們的社會教育中,男性是不可以輕易流露感情的,也就是說,男人表達(dá)心中的感受并不是一件容易的事。有道是“男兒有淚不輕彈”。男人在感情上不善于溝通是女人最大的失望。所以,不能滿足這種渴求,日積月累,這種被忽略的情緒就會爆發(fā)。當(dāng)一位男性在此時對她表現(xiàn)出關(guān)心及傾慕時,女人往往會錯把感激當(dāng)成愛而出軌,因?yàn)椤八弊屇阌X得自己被重視,有人愛,又回復(fù)了美麗、性感。</P>, m6 q5 @5 ^. K
<P> 女人與男人體會的是兩個完全不同的世界。男人可以把性與愛分得清清楚楚,女人卻不能。當(dāng)女人與伴侶兩情相悅時便會有靈肉合一的沖動,日久生情,產(chǎn)生依戀情結(jié)。性讓女人有愛的錯覺。即使女人當(dāng)初只是為“性”外遇,而不是為“愛”,但只要不斷與性伴侶發(fā)生關(guān)系,這種依戀的情愫便會逐漸滋長,最終使女人認(rèn)為有“愛”。</P>
, e8 c, G" F" g2 w* z' E, s<P> 當(dāng)一個女人婚姻出現(xiàn)危機(jī)時,會如饑似渴地希望找到另一伴侶來填補(bǔ)空虛和惶恐。充滿新鮮刺激并且無拘無束的外遇,會令她們仿佛重回少女時代。這時的女性往往分不清是激情還是真愛。</P>
6 \& _' b9 N2 p/ A( |$ E<P> 婚姻其實(shí)是一種“習(xí)慣”,要維持這種“習(xí)慣”并使之不能有“惰”性,是一個很難掌握的尺度。在婚姻中“永遠(yuǎn)擁有”如果不被“熟視無睹”、“無須重視”所取代,那么,婚姻也許會像憧憬的一樣美好。無論男人和女人,都要警惕婚姻中的惰性,相互溝通、充滿激情才會維系彼此的吸引。 </P><A href="http://www.souod.com/"><FONT color=#810081><搜得健康網(wǎng),專業(yè)健康知識分享,為你健康保駕護(hù)航></FONT></A>* h6 b& R0 k9 Y9 a/ r
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